We spend much of our lives chasing happiness, often under the illusion that it lies just around the next corner. We imagine that joy will arrive when we accumulate enough wealth, experience more pleasure, or finally find that perfect soul mate. And while these things may offer fleeting satisfaction, they rarely lead to the deep, lasting happiness our hearts truly long for.
The truth is, authentic and enduring happiness doesn’t come from what we acquire—it comes from how we live. It arises through a sense of fulfillment: the kind we experience when we contribute meaningfully, grow spiritually, and expand both our personal and collective awareness.
As the holiday season approaches—a time often filled with both joy and reflection—this is a powerful moment to ask yourself:
- Do I feel fulfilled?
- What will bring me lasting happiness?
If your answer to that second question includes, “If only I could get that perfect gift, land that new job, change my appearance, or have that one special thing,”—then I invite you to pause and think again.
Because the real goal—the one that transcends all temporary pleasures—is always a spiritual one. It’s the quest for inner peace. For harmony. For that deep, resonant feeling of being in tune with something greater than yourself—the universe, life itself, or the Divine.
The Myth of Money and Happiness
It’s a common saying that money doesn’t buy happiness—but let’s look at that a little more closely. Research supports it:
- A reported 42% of individuals on the Forbes 500 richest list stated they were less happy than the average person.
- And among lottery winners? Only 6% said they were happier in life after receiving their windfall.
These numbers reveal a deeper truth: While money can offer comfort, it doesn’t nourish the soul. It cannot replace the sense of purpose and fulfillment we gain through connection, creativity, contribution, and consciousness.
When Setting Resolutions, Seek the Deeper Goal
As the New Year approaches, many of us will begin to reflect on our goals, write out resolutions, and set intentions for 2025. This time, try approaching your goals with a different question in mind:
Will this bring me true fulfillment?
Because true fulfillment—unlike momentary pleasure—is what lingers. It roots itself in our lives and bears fruit over time. It comes from:
- Making a difference in the lives of others (the wisdom of the Golden Rule),
- Experiencing moments of true insight and spiritual clarity,
- Feeling inspired, alive, and connected to something greater,
- Expanding your awareness, recognizing that you are not separate from the universe, but an essential part of its unfolding.
This is what it means to live in harmony with your higher self. To move through life not just surviving, but awakening—growing, contributing, and living in tune with the deeper rhythm that connects all of us.
So as you reflect this season, I invite you to go beyond the surface and listen inwardly. Ask not just what you want, but who you are becoming. And let your choices reflect the kind of happiness that lasts—not because it was given to you, but because it grew from within.
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